While you're too young to understand it now or know who I'm talking about at the moment: current popular culture has brought to my attention something we need to discuss. Perhaps you've heard of a performer by the name of Miley Cyrus? By the time you read this she will certainly be "old news", but she's recently grabbed the attention of the world. Sadly, this attention is because her raunchy media displays.
I should start by saying, i rather like Miley, her music is catchy and she's certainly doing her job; which appears to be getting attention. However, she's a performer and the money she makes directly ties into the attention she gets. Even worse is that in our society, sex sells, so her method is working perfectly.
Due to this amassed fame, young girls are following her behavior. While i don't know which starlet will be making waves when you read this, someone probably will and young women of her generation will be inspired by them. Finally, this brings me to my point. This is not the type of girl you want to seek.You want a women who values much more than how they look and how sexually they can project themselves. I know those girls are "hot" or whatever you kids are saying now, but projecting sexuality lacks substance. Let me tell what lacking substance means:
For one, intense drama, if you can't value yourself how well can you really value others? Also, if you're only focus is on physicality and how you look, than it's all about you, there's no room for someone else. These girls are trouble in pretty wrapping paper. I'm not telling you "go find someone you don't find attractive". That's not what I mean. However, the only type of girl worth having is someone who values themselves, not as a sex object but as a beautiful person, worthy of love. (Once again, this wonderful girl will not be found in high school, NO high schooler is that self actualized and ready for a relationship, be her friend.)To summarize because I'm a little all over the map, the girl you should be searching for, does not take slutty selfies. The girl you're searching for is not the girl who's desperate for attention. Trust me, i was that girl, its embarrassing and the relationships during that time did not go well. Which I'm thankful for now, because those relationships shouldn't have worked. I digress. I really want to encourage you, be the guy who doesn't need a girlfriend. Be the guy who desires someone with substance (not substances) and the guy who can be a great friend. (I promise you won't be stuck as friend zone guy when you've hit the right time for a relationship). Be a man just like.your Dad, because while he's certainly not perfect, he respected me, treated me well, and does not, has not, and will not objectify women. Be a good man worthy of a great girl and she'll come, and remember you are worthy of someone great.